An intense attraction is the essential first ingredient to igniting romance
with a Scorpio. The famed sex symbols of the zodiac, these folks have turned
seduction into an art form. They'll gaze into your eyes while speaking
passionately about a something, anything...and suddenly, it's gotten very,
very hot. This sign likes to be in control, and may secretly have planned
out all the details of your first date before even officially asking you
out. A date with a Scorpio is like being tested. They'll invite you into
selective parts of their life: their favorite restaurant, bar, place to hang
out with friends, and eventually their homes. They’re looking to see
how well you'll fit in and if you understand what makes them tick. One condescending
remark and it might just be curtains for you. Scorpios fear rejection more
than any other sign, so if you want to make it to Date #2, be as fascinated
and encouraging as possible.
Asking a Scorpio out can be tricky since they are so particular. Start off a conversation by asking them about their favorite restaurant, then suggest going there together some time. These competitive trendsetters love introducing people to the places they discover and will be flattered by your interest. Ultimately, they are looking for someone who fits in with their pre-existing life, so the only work you may have to do for this date is finding out what makes your Scorpion tick.
![]()
Sample their favorite restaurant, their favorite bar, their favorite club, their favorite anything
Check out an indie concert; they love discovering new music
Go to a restaurant overlooking a lake or ocean (Scorpio is a water sign)
Spend a day at the beach together. The water chills them out.
Sample wines at a vineyard
Start a band together or belt out tunes at karaoke
Cook dinner together (at Scorpio's house; they like to be in control)
Are
you "meant to be"? Find out how to keep your love alive
with an in-depth romantic compatibility analysis! Find
out more >

