Throw away that rulebook! If you were born with Venus in Aquarius or the iconoclastic eleventh house, your approach to relationships is unconventional, if not outright rebellious.

Traits of Venus in Aquarius

Pleasing parents falls pretty low on the Venus in Aquarius list of priorities; in fact, shock value can be an aphrodisiac! You may purposely scout out partners who are different, and enjoy leaving jaws on the ground with your no-limits brand of loving.

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Venus in Aquarius is the romantic rebel

Ultimately, you’re a sapiosexual, turned on by a beautiful mind. The person who can hold a fascinating conversation and inspire you to think outside the box, could be the one who lures you into a permanent domestic partnership. Marriage might not be your ideal with ultramodern Venus in Aquarius placement ruling your heart. Under this liberated influence you chafe at the idea of anyone “owning” you.

That said, you don’t mind exclusivity! Your emotionally cool sign finds it a relief to plant into a relationship instead of playing all those aggravating head games of the courtship phase. The non-negotiable? Your mate must be a strong individual with a lush life outside of the relationship.

Experimental Aquarius (or an 11th house Venus) can make you a fun one in bed. You’re always willing to try a new gadget, toy, even a rotating cast of partners and extras. Single days are not lonely days for you, whether you’re burning up the dating apps or enjoying the virtual turn-on of erotica (or both).

Jealousy is a pretty foreign concept for Venus in Aquarius. Alas, that level headed approach might dull the sparks with a more passionate person. Although you run cooler, you must be careful not to minimize your partner’s feelings. Learning about neuroscience and its effect on human emotions can give you a template for empathy.

Personal style of Venus in Aquarius

Stylistically, you’re the opposite of a mall rat. Your clothes are a means of expressing your individual flair and anti-fashion sensibilities. Indie-label designers, capsule collections and deconstructed vintage? Now we’re talking! Your decor sensibilities tend to be futuristic.

Your home may be more curated than cozy; a pastiche of Mid Century modern and industrial pieces in glass and steel. And one day, you will own an original Eero Saarinen Womb Chair…in tangerine!

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