How to Make a Gemini Woman Happy

how to make a gemini woman happy

Is a Gemini woman right for you? How do you make a Gemini woman happy?

If you follow astrology, you may hear some misleading match-up advice. Maybe you’ve heard that you should “never” date a Gemini. The truth is you can make it work with any zodiac sign. Your so-called imperfect match could become your life partner if you take a chance.

Astrology is a helpful tool for “decoding” people. No matter what you believe, it’s always helpful to have another tool in your romantic arsenal.

So if you’re interested in a Gemini, how do you make a Gemini woman happy—and find yourself happy with a Gemini woman?

The Gemini woman

Gemini is the third of the 12 signs of the zodiac, which begins its cycle late spring during Gemini season—which falls around May 21 to June 20.

Gemini is ruled by Mercury, the planet of communication. Mercury also rules technology and the intellect, making this one of the most curious and cutting-edge signs of the zodiac. Double the fun for everyone! There are at least two personalities inside the Gemini woman at all times.

Adventurous Gemini women change faster than the weather, and constantly flip between moods and interests. They love to chatter and have a million great ideas. The Gemini woman has a fast-moving mind and keeps her hands busy with texts, gadgets, and great convos (can be prone to gossip) in her intellectual pursuits.

Part of the fun of Gemini women is that you’re never quite sure which personality you’re going to experience. Will it be the vivacious, pun-dishing jokester, or the snarky, mean-spirited critic? But if you’re willing to see all the crayons in the box, she’ll color your life in thrilling ways!

Is the Gemini woman your “dream girl?”

Ruled by the dual sign of the twins, Gemini energy circulates in a quick and frenetic way. The Gemini woman craves “twin flame” and kindred spirit energy, and is always up for an intellectual meeting of the minds. The essence of Gemini energy is fascinating, original, resourceful, charming, wise, and adventurous. The negative manifestation can devolve into restless, distracted, two-faced, judgmental, depressed, and overwhelmed energy.

The Gemini woman has a tendency to ride the roller coaster of life, spiraling skywards one minute and plunging into lows the next. If you can keep up with these vibes, though, you’ll have one helluva thrill and intellectual stimulation!

How to spot a Gemini woman

The Gemini woman is a mischievous, curious creature and often has a twinkle in her eyes. She is often found reading and talking with their hands. You’ll find her behind a camera, behind a DJ booth, deep in conversation (online and IRL), and often arguing both sides of an issue.

The “natural habitat” for a Gemini woman

Wherever a Gemini woman has an audience, you’re likely to find her. A dance club, in front of a classroom or a boardroom, attending a gallery opening or a book signing, stirring up political debate, behind a camera or writing a novel. Wherever the action is, that’s where you’ll likely her. The Gemini woman also loves to work with her hands, so she may be a creative, happily making things for you or others. She’s also just as likely to hop on her bike or on a plane and take off to take in the scene elsewhere.

What a Gemini woman does for a living

The Gemini woman is a strong communicator, logical thinker, and multitasks with amazing breeze. She is a logical thinker, clever and witty, flexible (good with variety). She’s a versatile career woman, and some might say, a walking search engine.

These traits and more are why you might find a Gemini woman working as a news reporter, an event DJ, an equity trader, dance instructor, director of photography, a web analytics developer, patent agent, interpreter, content writer or some type of communications consultant. A lot of Gemini women are also actresses, voice artists and motivational speakers.

What a Gemini woman wants in a partner

Gemini women view love with cool, rational skepticism. She doesn’t trust most feelings will last (what is love, anyway?) but at the same time, she has an adolescent-level notion of true love. Tricky to navigate? Sure. The Gemini woman has an active, restless mind. She can easily suffer from “analysis paralysis” so she’s looking for someone who won’t dwell there with her.

She can be picky. It’s probably easier for a Gemini woman to describe what she doesn’t want in a partner versus what she does want. A lack of curiosity is probably a deal-breaker. She needs variety and range of thought. Someone who is sophisticated and can keep up with her is likely to win her heart. How you look is of lesser importance than how you think and speak.

If you’re one of those people who is constantly growing, evolving and searching, you may have found your perfect match in a Gemini woman. Go ahead and contradict yourself a little, be passionate and live out loud with her. Be a saint with a dark side. And in return you’ll create paradise with a Gemini woman.

Flirting with a Gemini woman, “romantic stuff”

Commitment is not a natural state for a Gemini woman right off-the-bat, so have fun flirting! A Gemini woman loves to chat, and chat can lead to flirt, and nothing more. So you really have nothing to loose letting yourself loosen up around a Gemini woman. Go there!

A Gemini woman loves thoughtful conversion and lives in her imagination. Are you ready to go on a journey with her?

Flirting & dating and your first date

The Gemini woman needs to connect with conversation and intellect, smart flirting. She’s curious by nature, and loves to ask questions. You might feel like you’re on a job interview but rest assured, this is when she’s in her comfort zone. If you feel the conversation gets lopsided, turn the tables and ask her the questions—a Gemini woman does love to wax a little about herself!

Sex with a Gemini woman

A sensual love match with a Gemini woman must include touch. Dirty talk—really, any talk, is probably a deal-maker. She is mutuality-minded, too, and likes sex to be a give-and-take. Your voice might be a major turn on. You can also seduce a Gemini with racy texts as foreplay.

The key to this sign is variety. If you have a willing partner, costumes, role-play and even a stripper pole or pornography may be allowed in the repertoire.

The thrill of almost getting caught also speaks to the inner daredevil of the Gemini woman. Maybe a romp in the car or a semi-public space, or outdoors on a picnic table, will ratchet up your sensual love match.

A Gemini woman’s turn-ons and turn-offs

If you want to keep a Gemini woman happy, it is helpful to know here turn-ons and turn-offs!

Gemini woman turn-ons: being up on current events, the latest books and music, and having a big, ambitious project in the works that you can talk about. A beautiful voice and hands. Being able to accept constructive criticism. Understanding her needs for variety and needing space.

Gemini woman turn-offs: having a nasal, piercing or annoying (to her) voice. Lacking edginess, or being too wholesome or naïve. Nagging her or bossing her around, being insecure or too needy. Neglecting your appearance, healthy diet or fitness. Showing no interest in what makes her happy or stifling her views.

Dating a Gemini long-term

A Gemini woman is not afraid of commitment, but she may suffer from thinking “grass is greener over there” early in your relationship. She is easily plagued by indecision, so it can be difficult for her to go all-in. That she is a verbal sign, you’ll always know where you stand—a Gemini woman will straight up tell you!

If she… 

Gets quiet, it means she’s in her own world and probably happy to be there. You could take a time-out. She’s had enough together time, most likely, and just needs to be alone with her thoughts. She probably will miss you soon enough.

Doesn’t call, she doesn’t think you have enough in common. The Gemini woman connects through conversation. If it’s your turn to call, do it! She might feel she’s putting in more effort than you.

Calls a lot, she’s really interested. She might be your highest volume texter. But you don’t always have to be available. Tease her back with some banter but return to your day job or activity so she doesn’t think you’re too easy to catch, ha!

Doesn’t make a move after a couple of dates, she might be shy, nervous or still unsure about your chemistry. If she keeps asking you out, that means you’re still in the running.

Doesn’t make a move after a few weeks, she’s either on a celibacy kick or intimidated by you. Throw caution to the wind and ask her if you can make a move. At least you’ll know what’s up—she will tell you!

Moves fast, she’s impulse shopping and feels like taking a chance. She’s not thinking about consequences but not ruling out a love connection, either.

Picks up the tab and gives you gifts, she’s in courtship mode. Be gracious and grateful but don’t expect this to go on for much longer. She’s not into buying your love.

Introduces you to her family and/or closest friends, she’s seeing how you fit in. The Gemini woman is a loyal person, so bad chemistry with her squad is a deal-breaker. Be kind, interested and listen more than you talk.

Compatibility with a Gemini woman, by zodiac sign

If you’re an… your common language is:

Aries: intellect, books, poetry

Taurus: affection, touch, food and wine

Gemini: everything!

Cancer: TV shows, cultural activities, music and books

Leo: winning arguments, debating politics

Virgo: words, writing, politics and ideas

Libra: parties, socializing, wine and restaurants

Scorpio: kinky sex, music, debauchery, exploring the underworld

Sagittarius: fighting and writing, stringing words together into perfectly crafted insults

Capricorn: acting out each other’s repressed alter ego

Aquarius: revolutionary thought

Pisces: neuroses, music and art, the underground scene

Famous Gemini women and female celebrities

Emma Chamberlain, Zoe LaVerne, Alissa Violet, Lexi Rivera, Nia Sioux, Angelina Jolie, Alanis Morissette, Iggy Azalea, Mary-Kate and Ashley Olsen, Kate Upton, Amy Schumer, Harriet Beecher Stowe, Joyce Carol Oates, Charlotte Olympia Dellal, Queen Victoria, Marilyn Monroe, Natalie Portman, Nicole Kidman, Courteney Cox, Helena Bonham Carter, Idina Menzel, Zoe Saldana, Sofia Hublitz, Stevie Nicks, Helen Hunt, Naomi Campbell, Brooke Shields, Lily-Rose Depp, Heidi Klum, Maggie Q, Melissa Etheridge, Kylie Minogue, Juliette Lewis, Elizabeth Hurley, Lauryn Hill, Leah Remini, Ginnifer Goodwin, Iggy Azalea, Anna Kournikova, Anne Heche, Sondra Locke, Bar Refaeli, Lucy Hale, Kathleen Turner, Mel B, Paula Abdul, Isabella Rossellini, Kate Upton, Joan Rivers, Abby Wambach, Julianna Margulies, Azealia Banks, Aly Raisman, Rasheeda, Venus Williams, Tory Burch, Sasha Obama

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