Aquarius Monthly Horoscope

While it’s not exactly a “stop-the-press” news alert, October will underscore your longing for independence within relationships. On the one hand, you’re looking for a serious commitment, but on the other, you want the freedom to explore without having to sacrifice your schedule and emotional needs.

Your expansiveness might reach a new high, thanks to the confident Sun trotting through your liberated ninth house until October 22 and Venus in indie-spirited Sagittarius from October 17 to November 11. If you’re not happily hooked up, you may feel more experimental about dating, perhaps considering a long-distance or open relationship. Who says you can’t have a “weekend partner” or a “live show and hookup” buddy? As long as the terms are laid out clearly and everyone’s aligned, why not?

The Libra new moon and annular solar eclipse on October 2 plant the seeds for the future, offering you and your partner(s) an opportunity to expand the confines of the existing relationship container. With your mind so open to new possibilities, you'll easily stumble on spontaneous moments that can lead to new friendships and adventures. Follow your curiosity, Aquarius, and see where it takes you—especially around October 8, when love planets Venus (in Scorpio) and Mars (in Cancer) form a harmonious 120-degree trine.

Mars in this watery placement brings a much-needed dose of restraint back into your romantic equation. Want to win hearts? Find ways to “be there” for your boo, showing your dedication to helping your love interest win in life. By the same token, be sure to keep some boundaries in place. Supportive is hot; sacrificing is not. Defining the relationship feels important now—especially with Venus in Scorpio and your serious tenth house through October 17. Gracefully initiate those heart to hearts and be sure to set the right mood so these talks remain creative and inspiring rather than contentious. 

You might feel the initial rush start to wear off however, when abundant Jupiter reverses course from October 9 to February 2 in your romance zone. For single Water Bearers, consider taking a pause from the dating apps. With Jupiter’s reversal, the confident planet can have you second-guessing your recent matches or relationship desires. Regardless of how hot the attraction, you may need a break to cool down from the intensity. If you jumped into something new, here’s your chance to regulate your speed.

Your mind is on the future in a more serious way starting October 22, when the Sun shifts into Scorpio and your tenth house of long-term goals. If excess and hedonism sent your dating life a bit off the rails over the past three weeks, you can find your equilibrium during this disciplined time. You could meet someone interesting at a networking work event or an industry Halloween party that could set your heart ablaze.